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i guess i can say im jelouse, of when my boyfreind is with this girl in his classes and inbetween classes alot, and occsaionaly sits with her at lunch, i mean i trust him by all means, but i hate bein jelouse cuz it hurts me and effects my mood. but i hate seein them laffing together and im pretty sure what i see is a form of flirting... what should i do i mean do i have a reason to be jelouse if there kinda flirting...? he reassures me its nothing like that but when he first met her he was al like shes mad cool, we have so much in common , and shes in a lotta classes with me, and we walk together to our classes. it hurts, sometimes i just feel like shes on his mind when i want to b the one on his mind, and knowign that hes with her in gym and what not = / idkk i need advice (link)
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i was having this probably with my boyfriend a while ago. and it sucks, i know. and you just feel frusterated .. and when you talk to him about it you feel like you're going to be a jealous girlfriend. and that's no fun.
i just talked to him about it and i was like i dont mind when you talk to girls, because i know you're friends with them .. and i dont want to take your friends away. but there's just this one girl that drives me crazy. when you talk to her i just get jealous and that's not good. maybe you do not realize it, but you do flirt with her and it makes me mad .. so all i'm asking for you is to be aware that you do sometimes flirt with her and maybe you could stop. i want you and her to still be friends, but maybe stop flirting so much.
so try that with him. but you've got to keep this in mind. he's with you, not with her .. and he likes you, not her. so be more positive, and dont let her get to you.
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Thanks .. Alot . il tel you how it ends up :) cuz your advice seems VERY helpful, sometimes i just overreact with things. which i should probably work on
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