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Last Update: December 25, 2007
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THis guy and I really like each other....well at least I know that i really like him. But he told me he liked me, and we have been talkin to each other for a month and some days. He is really sweet and we talk nearly everyday. but there is one problem: I live like two counties away from him (about 45-50 minutes) and the only common ground we have is when we see each other at church every Saturday. This weekend, he told me that he doesnt know if it will really work out because of our distance. I was crushed. But we saw each other the next day, and he said that he missed me, and he think he made a mistake. Then he added that the distance was not the only thing, that he wasnt being completely honest. Im not sure what it is, and im not sure whether he still likes me (but he did say that he still has feelings for me). And now i dont know what it is. And he is busy with homework alot, so it has been two days and we still havent tlaked about it. If he cant call me, he usually would call me just to say goodnight. Now if he doenst call, he just doent call. And now I dont know what to think. I know that if it was just the distance, then we could definitely work it out. I dont know what to think. SOmebody HELP!!!! (link)
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I think he still likes you. He just tires to be a ralist. It's hard living away from eachother but that's still no excuse. I have this friend whos girlfriend lies in Austria (and he lives i sweden!) And somehow they manage for it to work. You guys only love 40-45 minutes away from eachother. That's the time it takes for me to go to school! I go to school and back everyday, and that's about 90minutes a day! That's no biggie at all! You guys can totally make this work! If there is a will there is a way! The only reason for you guys not to be together is that one of you don't feel that way about the other. But I think he still likes you, give it a try! At least you see eachother at least once a week in chruch! That's awesome! then you can hang out afterwards or something! It is too hard to find a guy that you like and that actually likes you back so hun, when you find him (which you have!), do everything to make it work. It's worth it! There is too little love in the world because of silly things as "too far away" or "too big nose" or something! Let me just ask you somehting: DO you like him? If yes- go for it! otherwise, that's your answer!
Good luck! ;)
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O my goodness, u r so right. And please think of ure self as the greatest person ever. Because ure right. ANd u have really given me inspiration...SO thanx so much.
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