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okay. i met this guy online named Keith, Keith and i started talking because i had just gotten out of a relationship and had my heart broken and i was looking for an easy rebound. But anyways things didn't really work out with me and keith because i didn't feel a connection, however with his friend nick, i did. Ive never actually met them but my friends have and they said that theyre both really nice guys. keith and nick only live an hour away from me and ive never seen them before....me and nick actually started liking eachother ALOT through the summer and we'd talk everynight till AT LEAST four in the morning, we'd call eachother babe and sweetie and all the gushey stuff but then once school started we didn't talk as much because we were busy, then we both started liking different people. well, long story short, nick got his girlfriend pregante only a month after we'd been talking, ((and you have to understand that we had such a strong connection and we were eachothers best friends)) he didn't wanna tell me because he was worried i would stop talking to him, but i was the one to ask him about it because keith had told me. so anyways i continued to support him and talk to him (( i had a boyfriend too)) but i still loved nick. and i could tell that he really loved me too. weve tried meeting so many times and everytime something always goes wrong. now hes a dad and being really resoponsible....and hes still with his gf only because he got her pregnate. its been 2 years since we first started talking and ive thought about him at least once everyday since then.
I am in a serious relationship now where i really love my boyfriend or so i think. but lately all ive been thinking about is nick. i havent talked to him since a couple months ago and thats just thru text, we havent talked on the phone since summer. and that hurts. Ill text him occasionaly and sometimes he doesnt respond but other times he does and says "im so sorry, ive just been busy but i really want to talk to you"...i feel like im not being fair to my current boyfriend by still feeling a love ive felt for 2 years so strong that i think about nick and my boyfriend equally throughout the day, sometime i think about nick a little more....nick wansnt only the guy i love he was also my best friend and i really miss talking to him...what should i do? (link)
you should call nick every now and then but not alot since he's so busy being a dad and try giving your boyfriend sum more attention im sure he want sumlove to.but wit nick you can't xpect things to go back to the way they were b4 he was a dad.he's probably goin through the same thing wit his girlfriend but if yall really wanna connect you should set up a place to meet to talk and everything and mayb you'll be able to meet his kid too


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