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Hey, my name is Sam.I know I just got the advice column, but i give people advice all of the time. I may only be 14, but I'm knowledgable.I'm used to my friends having issues, and I try to be there for them. You can ask me whatever you'd like, and I'll try to give you the best answer possible. So you can either leave me a message here, or IM me, which ever is easier for you. My SN is smithersssx. =]
Gender: Female
Location: Foxborough
Occupation: High School
Age: 14
AIM: smithersssx
Member Since: January 4, 2007
Answers: 4
Last Update: February 1, 2007
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i know there are alot of these questions, but im 16 and me and my boyfriend had sex and it was my first time. i dunno if im just really paranoid, or that since it was my first time, I was ignorant and naive. before having sex we did some stuff he didn't go all the way in because he didn't have a condom, but im wondering if thats what could get me pregante. I'm showing symtoms like my chest hurts and i have insane cravings in the middle of the night, also im having cramps and im no where near my period, could i be pregnate?? Also, our relationship is kinda dying, it's getting more and more boring and little things are starting to bug me. when we first started dating everything was so exciting and never boring but now its just kinda blahh... but i love him, and i dont wanna break up with him, but i want the realationship to get better... how should i tell him that im bored and what should i do about it?? (link)
im almost positive your just parranoid.

if he wasnt in you all the way and didnt cum nothing should happen. if he did precum and some got inside you you should be fine if he was no where near cumming. the chest pains and cramps happen. your a teenager, so your body is still going through changes. you could also be getting a cold.

if you do end up missing your period dont freak out. when you worry about things your period comes later then it should cus your body is under so much stress.

but i wouldnt worry to much a bout it now. my friends have been through this before and they've been fine. if you do miss your period. dont metion it to your bf or anyone because like i said when you worry it makes it come later. if you miss it 3-4 months, take a test but at your age your body isnt ready for a baby so it wont usually let you have one and you might get a mis carriage

hope it helps..Sam


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thanks so much!




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