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hey! I am girly (as you can see) and I love acting. i am a bookworm and I enjoy hanging out with my friends.

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Ok. Well Im 14 and I'm a girl. My boyfriend is just a few years older than me. Me and him have gotten sexual, but we haven't had sex before. I don't want to have sex, but he's older and he would do it if i did. And that kind of puts pressure on me. He isn't making me have sex or purposly putting pressure on me. He is a really nice guy and has a very nice personality and I could so see myself with him years from now and we have been together for 6 months. We have touched eachother in certain places before and like the other night we took it a step further. He touched me between my legs bare but I let him. I always get caught up in the moment and I am afraid I will get caught up in the moment and end up doing something I will regret. I won't have sex till I have no doubts I want to be ready and my mom said that if i want to have sex she will put me on the pill. So I want to wait another year or so and then i will if I'm ready, but I'm afraid he exspects I will have sex with him even though he's told me many times it's will always be my choice and when I am ready he will be to! I am scared! What should I do?

Oh sorry if it was so long, but if you can could you please give me some advice? :)

You just have to be as careful as possible. If you are afriad something else will happen than try to stick to kissing because if he respects you and gets carried away then set boundaries for him. tell him your thoughts too. When you feel you are ready for sex than ask your mom to take you to the doctor to get the pill and always use protection when you do.

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(Rating: 3) yeah he respects me and all im just the kind that gives in and im afraid i will get carried away but

thank you :)
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