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I am a teen who has been through tough break ups all the way to being threatened about my life. I just love helping erebody else. Its one thing if an adult trys to understand a teen. But it is another thing if a teen trys to understand the Teen. (us teens lay it down like it is, you feel me?)
You got anything on yo mind let it out, even if its embarassing, cause I have people asking the same type of Whateva, u kno what I'm sayin?
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Ok. Well Im 14 and I'm a girl. My boyfriend is just a few years older than me. Me and him have gotten sexual, but we haven't had sex before. I don't want to have sex, but he's older and he would do it if i did. And that kind of puts pressure on me. He isn't making me have sex or purposly putting pressure on me. He is a really nice guy and has a very nice personality and I could so see myself with him years from now and we have been together for 6 months. We have touched eachother in certain places before and like the other night we took it a step further. He touched me between my legs bare but I let him. I always get caught up in the moment and I am afraid I will get caught up in the moment and end up doing something I will regret. I won't have sex till I have no doubts I want to be ready and my mom said that if i want to have sex she will put me on the pill. So I want to wait another year or so and then i will if I'm ready, but I'm afraid he exspects I will have sex with him even though he's told me many times it's will always be my choice and when I am ready he will be to! I am scared! What should I do?
Oh sorry if it was so long, but if you can could you please give me some advice? :)
I understand your position. He may think that if you are mature enough to date him, then you are mature to have sex. That isn't true. Not feeling right is a good dign. It is letting you know if you step out you are pushing yourself away from HIV or even sudden pregnancy.
I would just let him know how you feel about all this. Its up to you. Just remember that the power you have over your man is your voice. TRUST ME he'll understand.
Oh yea, I'd use a condom instead, because he doesn't sound like a virgin to me. HIV is like so dangerous. I mean it used to be from ages 18-25, now its like 12-18. You're not the only one :) :)
(Rating: 5) thank youuuuu :)