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i have a friend who's dad recently died. (the boy is 14) he was really close to his dad. his dad passed a few days before christmas and this night of his funeral was his 50th birthday. the boy's mother isn't really protective. this boy used to be in a gang...and had been involved with bad stuff. he is still in a gang...but wants out. he has one brother who is in it too...he's 19, and he is nothing but a bad influence. the boy knows i am worried, but he can't get out. i feel like now that his dad has passed that he is going to look up to his brother the kinda replace his dad. I am really worried. This has been bothering me so much. i wish i could have taken his dad's place, because i feel like nows the time he needs a dad in his life. does anyone have any advice. because i love this boy (i don't like love him as in bf or anything) it's just that i love him in a way that i would be willing to do anything to help him..and i would be heart broken if anything happened to him because he has been through so much. i love dis boy in a way that i would do anything to make him happy...even if that wouldn't include me. does anyone have any advice? any would be appreciated...srry it's long. (link)
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you should tell him that he can talk to you about anything. tell him you are worried about him looking up to his brother because he is nothing but a bad influence. tell him what you really think. im sure he will appreciate it that you care alot about him. and might be willing to do so. tell him you dont think its a good idea to be in a gang. and it will just start a whole bunch of trouble, and might end up where is dad is, and you will miss him terribly. tell him you are there for him 100%. make him fell like he can trust you. and dont let him down!
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