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My name`s Amy, you probably know me as naimee. I`m sixteen years young, I`m a junior, & I live in San Antonio, Texas. =]
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Hi-
I am a 30 yr old professional female, looking for advice. I slept with my friend's ex-crush several months ago. I am single, as is he. She is now married (for over 2 years) to a wonderful man and pregnant with their first child. She NEVER had a relationship with this man, but had a massive crush on him through high school and college. She is very happy in her marriage. She and I are not as close friends as we once were, but live in the same area and see each other here and there. This man's name comes up in conversation and I feel dishonest by not telling her the truth about what happened between us. It was just a one-night thing and I don't want to be selfish and tell her just to make myself feel better. However, she and I were such close friends and I feel like I am omitting something huge from mention by not telling her I slept with this guy. Plus if she finds out from someone else in the future (not me) it would be even worse (though this is not a likely scenario). Please help!! Thanks. (link)
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You still shouldn`t tell her, I don`t even understand why you would even consider that.
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I think you telling her wouldn`t be such a good idea. Sure, she probably couldn`t care less because she's now married to a wonderful man & she`s pregnant with his child. I`m sure that the last person she would ever think about is this crush guy that she used to like a long time ago.
But I`m sure if you brought it up in conversation she`d think it was random just because she probably hasn`t thought about him in a long time.
I wouldn`t tell her if I were you, just because she`s married and won`t care. If she finds out in the future, just tell her that you didn`t think it seemed like that big of an issue at the time.
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