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my boyfriend and i have been together for a year and a half and i think he is getting sick of me. he is very controlling and he isnt the greatest .. i have had more than one occasion where someone has told me he has cheated on me. i believe him when he says its not true. he doesnt like that i have guy friends so i dont have any but he has tons of friends who are girls and it doesnt even phase him that it upsets me. he has lots of girls numbers including one of the girls who told me they hookedup. another girl who was trying to get with him calls alot. he says he loves me but he treats me like shit. im a good girlfriend i do everything for him i love him. but still even if he messes up i get yelled at if i confront him .. everything is my fault even if i catch him lying he gets mad if i was snooping and says i need to give him his privacy and that i have no right to check his stuff. he says i need to trust him more but how can i when he has hurt me so much in the past and how am i supposed to trust him if i catch him lying all the time. he calls me names like slut when he gets mad and he calls me crazy. and he apologizes when we stop fighting and he doesnt seem to understand its not right. ive forgiven him many many times and he just doesnt seem to take me seriously. he doesnt think i will dump him he thinks hes irraplacable (lol) but hes not. he treats me like just some chick .. im not some chick after a year and a half. he should be treating me like a princess not like a maid. please help (link)
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Dear boyfriend problem,
You really need to tell him exactly what you typed, don't just say it and be like we need to talk, instead sit down with him, hold his hands and look into his eyes when you talk to him about it, it'll get through to him more easily, and tell him that you feel more than just being a chick on his side, you need to tell him about the whole how he's allowed to have a BUNCH of girl friends but you can't have any guy friends, it's not fair at all, so try doing that and if it still doesn't get through his head maybe it's just time to move on.
-Beanie
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Rating: 5
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thanks =]
i think im gonna show him my question when he comes over today
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