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Me and this boy used to date. We really liked each other a lot, things went wrong and friends got in the way, we both got hurt end of story. We always feel diff.about each other at dif times.and its been like 6 months since we broke up/ We been hanging out a lot lately, and we got into this jealousy fight, and then i just spilled it all out that i liked him. He pretty much said what i just said, i hurt him before, and he never knows how i feel, but he has thought about us gettin back together. We hung out the past two days, flirt soo much, but nothing more. I know i cant force something to happen, but i know somewhere inside of him he likes me, and im sometimes afraid to show him howw much i like him cause i dont want things to feel awkward for him, and just rush things and f*** it up. But idk, we might hang out tm. I jsut need to get some advice on what to do from here, i dont wanna hear juts wait it out, i wanan hear from someone who has once been in this situatoin and got past it. Like in my mind im thinkin talk to him about it in person, then see what happens, instead of the comp like we have been
thanks
Hi honey,
I have been in your shoes before. Men are hard to figure out and the last thing you want to do is scare him away. If you both have feelings for each other things will work themselves out if you play it right.
First..spend time with him and let him talk about the things he likes and act like you are interested in them. Always try to make him feel like a million bucks when you are with him and make him want to spend time with you. If you brighten his day he will want to be around you. If you are constantly fussing at him or complaining he won't want to be around that.
Try to always make the environment you are in a fun one. Make him laugh. The best thing you can do is be yourself.
Goodluck and keep me posted as to how it goes.
Wrain
Talking to him in person would be better than talking to him on the computer. The computer is not a good medium because you can't hear their voice or see their facial expressions. When you do talk to him in person, just tread lite and remember, always make him feel like a million bucks, keep him laughing and act like you are interested in what he has to say. Men like to talk about themselves and in the beginning, we have to act like we are interested. Play it cool and if you really want this guy, you can hook him.
Good luck and keep me posted.
Wrain
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welll i found out hes hanging out with this slut whos his ex girlfriend tm, and everytime they hang out they get back together. So tonight when me and him hung out i told him i was mad, and we got into a fight. Then we appologized, and flirted like crazy and had a good time. I hope nothing happens tm though with him and her, but he assured me that they;re just friends, and i think just even after me tellin him that i was jealous and upset, it made him realize i really do care for him, and it might have been a good thing?=]
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