Member Since: December 4, 2006
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Last Update: December 29, 2006
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I don't know what category this would go in, so forgive me if it's in the wrong category.
Let's call my friend Jane.
And let's call her boyfriend John.
Okay, well, Jane and John, who were in 11th grade at the time, decided to have sex one day and Jane ended up pregnant. It just so happens, I liked John a lot, but I knew that Jane loved him with all her heart. Now Jane is talking about how hard it is being a mother of a 5-month-old and stuff. It's sort of making me jealous.
I'm just afraid that I'm going to go have sex with some guy I don't even like to have a baby and see what it's like.
So, my question is, Is there any way I can see how hard it is being a teen mother without actually having to go through the pregnancy? Like, not like one of those psycho baby doll things people do in middle school, but like, staying with someone who has a newborn baby or something to convince me I don't want a baby? Or should I just have a baby and get it over with?
Thanks in advance! (link)
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it just so happens i have a friend who was 15 when she had her baby. the baby is 4 months old so we are kinda in the same pool right now girl! my friend who is now a mother is my absolute best friend. her baby is in a way my baby too because i help her out alot. you should do thatfor your friend too. hang out with her alot and offer to feed and change the baby maybe even babysit and stuff. i know i got those baby blues too i thought i would look cute pregnant! but i realised that i want to be happily married wheni have my child with the one and only i will love. if you have a baby now you must realize you would be growing up extrmemly fast and losing your childhood. its not to just have sex with some guy your worth a million more than that. if you respect yourself others will highly respect you too.
best wishes darling
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Thanks for the advice. If u want to email me, it's heartthorns@hotmail.com. Thanks! maybe we can talk together or somethin!
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