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Ok so my friends do these things they call bashings. It's where we sit in a circle and tell esch other what we don't like each other. I hate it i think it's ridiculous casue i feel like their trying to stream line me so i'm some form of perfect friend robot.
They say it's so we don't talk behind each others back. Whenever i say i think it's stupid and it hurts me they just say i'm so sensitive and can't handle critism.
What do you think is it a good idea or stupid?
What should i do?

Well a long time ago I was hanging out with some people and we decided to do "bashings." By the end of it, people were just flat out insulting each other and it was really stupid. When we did this, it didn't stop anyone from talking about people behind their backs; if anything, it made it worse. I really don't think that this improves friendships. I mean, it could be beneficial if you approach it differently and you and your friends agree to talk to each other when something is bothering you, but what's the point of just criticizing each other for the hell of it? Your friends aren't being fair for making you do these "bashings" and saying that you're being too sensitive. Just talk to them. Say what you posted on here; you don't like feeling like you have to be a perfect friend, you think it's stupid and it hurts you, and you don't enjoy doing it. If they are good friends, they'll understand.

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(Rating: 5) thanks a bunch your right i hope they get it through their heads
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