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Ok, summary. I'm 23 years old, smart, mature, grounded, and I think I'm pretty and have a great sense of humor. The problem is I have such a hard time attracting guys. I could be thinner...but what I don't understand is, I have a friend who's younger than me by a couple of years and it's like she jumps from one guy to the next.
We're a lot alike, except I'm not really into the partying scene anymore and I don't have a lot of baggage as far as my past goes. It's pretty clean, cut, 2 serious boyfriends and that's it. She has a lot of baggage. Am I doing something wrong?
She's my friend and I think she's great, but I'm just confused as to what she's got that I don't. I personally (and I'm not the only one) don't think she's prettier than I am. I know she's got more confidence than I do. But I'm not the kind of person to just walk in and be all up in someone's face, I'm very down-to-earth and laid back. She's still in the partying scene, while I'm getting out of that and I'm wanting to find a relationship that's not all about partying. Am I lacking an important relationship quality?
I'm in college, work full-time (Monday-Friday), go to church, outgoing, friendly, good sense of humor...
Someone help me because I'm really beginning to second guess myself. (link)
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Dear Realationship Problem,
First of all never second geuss yourself. There is nothing that she has that you don't. You are bother two seperate people. Just because she has different realtionships than you do doesn't mean that there is something wrong with you. You are just aparently moving on to a more mature stage in your life and you are probably looking for that special realtionship that evolves into marriage. Just wait and someone will come that makes you want to talk to them. It'll be special so just kick back, relax and enjoy the ride.
And remember the best realtionships will come when you least expect it. Trust me i know I met an amazing, he's all i tihnk about at the moment and i met him without even meaning too, and we love eachother deeply.
-Beanie
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Rating: 5
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Thanks so much! That was really encouraging! :D
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