hey there world!
so i was talking to my friend tonight and she told me that i give pretty good advice and that what i told her really helped her..which sparked the idea for me to make this lovely advice column..i'm here for anyone if you need me and i'll answer whatever questions you have (even if they dont fall under my "favorite catergories" or whatever..haha)....but basically, here is a quote to sum it all up (at least in my eyes)...i really love this quote!
"I say if you feel good with what you're doing, let your freak flag fly"
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Alright, let's call this guy coffee (hey, I'm staring at a coffee cup here)He's in 11th grade and I'm 9th grade. Well I really really like him and I think he likes me too. My friends keep on saying that he likes me a lot and he's hitting on me and that we'd make a cute couple. I know, grade difference...but I really don't think he wants to just get in my pants.
But anywhos, he's really super nice and sensitive to everyone's feelings and really sweet. We basically know each other through a good friend of ours...sorta I guess? Anyways, here are some things that gets me to think that he likes me:
He said he come to the strings concert (most people never come unless they're family or forced)He puts his arms around my shoulder in a nonpossessive way and walks with me to my classes. twice he did that, he almost got in trouble for not returning to class right away and almost being late. He made sure that I was okay when I was really upset and told me to cheer up and everything. He asked if I had a bf and if I did he'd feel bad about putting his arms around me. He talks about me (in a good way) to his friends and always introduces me to all his friends whenever it's possible. He calls me cute and pretty and compliments me all the time.
Anyways I really like him and do you think it's weird that I'm having this major crush on a 11th grader when I'm only a 9th grader? Do you think he likes me? And tell me the truth because I'm looking foradvice..not sugar coated answers. THANKS! (link)
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well first of all, it is definatly not wierd to like an 11th grader..i know plenty of people who are with/like people who are older/younger than them..that is not that big of a difference and the important factor is that you like him =)
i definaty think he has some sort of feelings for you..because actions do speak louder than words...and he is obv not trying to just get into your pants, because he woudnt come off as genuine if he was, and this guy seems to really care about you (which is great!!)..my advice would be to try talking to him and maybe bring something up about how you feel (or his actions, and the implications of the walking to class thing etc) or ask him to hang out one on one outside of school....it isnt strange for you to be the one to ask..because it isnt that you're asking him out its just you're asking him to hang out...i know a lot of guys like it when the girls takes the initiative to ask to hang out..plus that will show him that you're interested in cultivating a relationship with him (in whatever sense that means, gf/bf vs just friends). regardless, he seems like a really great guy and i think either way you cant go wrong..so just talk to him, hang out with him and see what happens..i'm always here if you need me
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thnx a bunch!! the key thing i was worried about was that people might think that he just wanted to get in my pants or something...and i probably won't ask him to hang out with me one on one right away..i fear rejection a wee bit too much xD
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