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Haha. I am almost posotive he did get scared and back off. Although, whether it was because he liked you and didn't want you to know, or it was because he didn't think of you that way and was afraid it might interfere with your friendship, I'm not sure. Guys are just like that. The only thing you can do is try to talk to him about it. I tell girls this alot about guys because it is honestly the only way to figure it out. It seems dumb, and sometimes it might not work, but if you try asking him, whether on the phone, in person, through a note, or even online...Whatever you are more comfortable with, he may give you an answer. And usually if they do not give you a straight answer, it is because they are hiding their feelings, either because they don't want you to know they have feelings for you, or because they don't feel that way about you and don't want to hurt your feelings. Tell him how you feel...And let him know that if he doesn't feel that way you are still willing to be friends. People change all the time, and if you continue being just friends for now, in time, he may come to like you, or you may realize he is a better friend than he would be a boyfriend, and lose your feelings for him and stay friends. It all depends on the way people change. If you need advice on what to say to him, or on what he responded with, you can always email me... (And trust me when I say, I've just about heard it all when it comes to these kinds of guy troubles.)
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