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I'm a 14/f and I dont have a best friend. I mean I have friends.... but they're not that close. Like a lot of people I know, are going to the mall with their best friends, and since i dont have a best friend, i'd only have a chance to go to the mall with my mom... ughh and I soo totally dont want to do that.

Well, my point is that in school, we have about 20 minutes before school to do anything we want. And well I am hanging out with my "friends" and they don't really include me... so if they're having a conversation, and I ask a question, they wont answer me and just ignore me. I always feel so alone. I know you might say "just have you're family be your best friends" but I REALLY dont want to have my family be my best friends. I want someone that's my age, and who I can have sleepovers with, and go to the mall with, and just hang out with... but none of my friends don't like me that much. It's like this world doesn't even know I exist.

So my question is How can I stand out to people and try to make friends? Is there any tricks to making a best friend? What should I do about these so called "friends"? Keep talking to them? Ignore them?

I mean, if I start talking to them, they'll just change their mood into like an annoying mood. Suuuure they'll talk to me, but its about something really stupid like "what was the homework assignment for monday?"
Sometimes, if one of my friends, doesn't have anyone to talk to at the time, they'll come to me and start talking to me, but it's not the talking you think it is... its probably more like bragging. Like one of them likes to dance, and if she doesn't have anybody to talk to, she'll come up to me and say "oh my gosh, I can't remember my tap dance sequence... Oh yeah it goes ____" and then she'll like dance infront of me, and like show off.

I don't know what's wrong with me, it's like i'm a back-up friend to everybody... I feel so alone and my subject said "what happens to a lonely person in life?" well... what happens? Will I turn out to be some person who doesn't have a purpose in life?
How can I fix this? I'm SOOOO CONFUSED!!!!!!!!
HELP ME!

Aww sweetie dont worry its NOT just you..trust me. High school (or middle school if you are in middle school) are both about cliques. And once a clique is formed, its reallyy hard to get included! but you have to try. Trust me, it takes time. you cant let those girls know that you care they dont invite you into the conversation. And honestly, its all fake. MOST (there are some though) people who are supposively "best friends" dont stay friends forever and ever. Why? because they just stay close to have someone to go to a dance with or the mall. Its all about having someone to have your back its not true friendships. Having a best friend is like, a survival skill of high school. But its really hard to find that person at 14 because the people you've gone to school with have already like found their "best friends." Just try to be nice to everyone and try to get into group things without being annoying. Invite a certain group that seems to like you to your house for a sleepover and get to know them. It wont just happen right away and trust me, peoeple need a lott of warming up before they accept you. But dont give up! Be friendly and sweet and show youre a great friend to have! Good luck

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