hey there world!
so i was talking to my friend tonight and she told me that i give pretty good advice and that what i told her really helped her..which sparked the idea for me to make this lovely advice column..i'm here for anyone if you need me and i'll answer whatever questions you have (even if they dont fall under my "favorite catergories" or whatever..haha)....but basically, here is a quote to sum it all up (at least in my eyes)...i really love this quote!
"I say if you feel good with what you're doing, let your freak flag fly"
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This is so frustrating. Here's the deal:
I'm currently in a play. The lead, we'll call him Luke or something, is absoutely gourgous. Whenever we finish a performance, girls always flock to him. But you see, he has a girlfriend in the cast of 5 months. In order to speak to him, you need to gain her respect so she can approve of you. You see, it's really intimidating and hard to talk to him.
We're kinda friends, but I don't talk to him that much. We're acquaintances or whatever. Well, today I got really sick, and laid down and closed my eyes. It was during performance, so I sat out. A friend or two came in and asked me how I was doing after they left the stage. They sometimes would pat my shoulder then leave to change for the next scene. Well Luke came into the room, and I thought he was just going to ask how I was doing and then rush out. (you see, he is the lead, so he's always moving around) But instead, he asked how I was doing, then he bent down to my level and held onto my arm and kissed my cheek. The whole time, my eyes were closed so I had NO CLUE what was going on.
So... WHAT IS GOING ON?!
I'm going to see him and his girlfriend, for another month. What should I do? And was is just a friendly kiss or more? (link)
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well that is definatly interesting, isnt it? first of all, i wouldnt jump to any conclusions just yet because you dont want to start thinking something and then get hurt if reality and what you're thinking dont match...this is a tricky situation, my advice would be to start to chat with him more than you do now, even talk to his girlfriend..i can completely understand how intimidating that would be..to have to go through her to get to him..but if that is how it works you cant do anything about changing it...so just work with it and go with the flow in that area at least...it is clear that cares for you, otherwise he wouldnt have come in to make sure you were ok and try to make you feel better..so just keep talking to him and then you can better learn his true feelings and then even bring it up
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