ok my name is local_gurl91! i have problems! not serious problems. the typical high school/ drama problems that every teenager goes through so if anyone needs a perspective or opinion...... you can ask me and ill tell you what i think! you dont have to use it just keep it in mind with all the other advice you have!
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okay well i know this guy let's call him "Dan". And we've made out and done some things but we weren't even in a real relationship and i told him that i wanted to be in one and that i wouldn't go any farther until we were in one. He tells me he wants to be friends with benifites and i'm all like no because i just can't stand those relationships. It's either you're with me or not. Then he tells "forget you then." And so i'm all like what ever i can find a better guy who'll respect me. Then when i was walking home he waited for me. The moment he saw me he walked towards me and was all like "sup?" I roll my eyes and walked past him like what ever. He was all like "you're just gonna walk away form me like that?" And i was all like yea.Then i just had to ask "why would you lie to me." because he said he'd never hurt me.The n he played stupid like what do you mean? and he asked if he could walk me home and i said i guess. but i was still mad. we talked and he said that he wasn't ready another girlfriend. So i'm all like ok that means we're not going to be anything. Then we went back to his house to talk somemore and he was all like we can kick it in the bathroom. and i'm all like wat? But we did and he said that his ex and him faught too much so he doesn't want commitment right now. Then i told him if we were in a F/B relationship i'm gonna get hurt again because he'll probably cheat on me. Then he tells me he swears he wouldn't and he hasn't ever since he's met me but i don't know if i can trust him.
So Please Help i don't know what to do, if i should drop him or stay with him.
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OMG! you did such a good thing! standing up to him like that! im so proud of you! ANYWAYS....... if he isn't for a relationship and he just wants F/B , dont give in! your doing the right thing you really are! dont give into temptation whatever you do DONT GIVE INTO TEMPTATION IF HE'S NOT READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP THEN HE ISN'T READY FOR FOOLING AROUND EITHER! HE JUST NEEDS TIME TO HIMSELF! THE BREAK UP ISN'T THAT HEARTBREAKING FOR HIM OBVIOUSLY IF HE'S LOOKING TO MAKE OUT!
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