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I'm only offering you options, choices, and personal advice. I can give you facts, rules, and personal statements. Whether or not you choose to use my advice or not is your own decision but please, respect it. I refuse to sugar coat anything, and I hate saying google it- infact I refuse to use google as verb.
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My parents are overprotective. They won't let me go places when there are gonna be boys there. My brother, however, has a girlfirend and he can go anywhere with him (he's going to be 16 later this month.) I am 14- and when he was 14, he was able to do stuff. Any advice to say to them? HELP PLEASE...:'(
-Jam
First off, boys are a totally different species in a parents mind. Because most are more aggresive and less worrying in general to girls parents tend to be overbearing on girls. They are afraid that we'll get raped, murdered, taken hostage, ect. just because we are female. When your with guys parents tend to believe that the guy will lead them on have sex with a girl and then you'll die, crap like that.
You should earn your trust first. Talk to them, make an agreement one which you can get along with and so can they. Say you want to go to the movies with a group of friends inculding guys. Tell them that it's just a movie (maybe eating at some place which is more safe than a movie because there are many people around and in the light). Make sure you bring up the point that it is just a movie, there and back. Make sure to call them before the movie and if so before the meal. Then afterwards call them when it's over. They will see that you are resposible and diligent in calling them and keeping them in the know. Even if it's just hanging out at the mall or at another friends house keeping in contact will help them earn your trust. It is really just baby steps.
Tell them that you are a good person and there is nothing about you they have to doubt. Your friends, tell them they are also good people and students(parents love that stuff) and nothing wrong would happen. Asure them that you will be calling them to keep in contact so that they know everyhing going fine.
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