I'm a 25 year old mom to daughter, Amber, and studying to be a nurse practitioner. I've worked in Obsetrics and Gynecology, as well as a pediatric unit. I'm virtually always online, feel free to IM me whenever you'd like. But first, email me and tell me your screenname, I don't talk to anyone I don't know. I'll give advice through Advicenators, through email or AIM.
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I was wondering, if you use lube the first time you have sex, and when your hymen breaks, will lube get into your bloodstream and if it does, what happens? And also, does it hurt much less with lube, like, you don't really feel it? I heard that it hurts really really bad, so I was wondering if there is any way to avoid it. Thanks! (link)
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Hi there,
Your question is very common. First of all, no, when your hymen breaks, lube does not enter your bloodstream. You don't have to worry about that.
Second, it's not that the hymen breaking will be less painful, it's that the experience itself will be more comfortable. "First timers" sometimes have a problem with natural lubrication of the vagina, and a lube just helps that. It's made to help the penis slide in better, I don't know how better to explain that. You can also purchase pre-lubricated condoms.
The breaking of the hymen differs for every girl. It's not always that painful. Some girls don't even feel it.
Be careful and use a condom, okay?
Madalyn
For additional info/advice/questions, you can email me at madalyn987@yahoo.com.
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