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I just started a new school this year,and I started dressing "preppy"/casual, and made lots of new friends with my outgoing personality and all. Well, on the other hand, my best friend (from a different school) is into the goth/emo scene, and for a little while a few months ago I was too. Now I'm back into it again, and when I changed my myspace to totally death-looking emo pics and changed my pop music to death metal, I'm getting so many more responses than I thought. And from the "preppy" people, they're not liking it too much and keep asking what's wrong with me and asking 'what happened?!'-and my other friends, including my best, love it. I want to start dressing that way, but I'm way too afraid of what the student population thinks of me. Any suggestions on what I should do about this whole thing? (link)
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Alright, as soon as I started reading this, I instantly thought of how this happened to me, and how people's reactions to what you wear are way more that I would have thought.
I'd definitely just say to dress how YOU want. You seem pulled between two cliques, so choose the one you like dressing to impress more. I personally find it more fun to dress more punk, because it's more individual, and frankly saves money in my case, lol.
But you COULD always dress preppy-punk.(A good few good stores for that are Wet Seal, Delia's, Hot Topic-take my word, lol, and suprisingly, Aero.) That's overall what I began doing. Wear pinks and blacks together. Wear a hollister/ect tee with a skull necklace. Or if you cant seem to combine the style, make your style very off/on. Dress what you feel like dressing for the day. One day you may be wearing uggs, preppy tees and cute little skirts, while the next day you may be wear all black.
Do what you feel suits you best. =D
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