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hey, i think i need a bit of guidance, i just had my first heartbreak.
i know it will take time, i know what ive gotta do (girl nights, erase his number and so on) its not that part that worries me.. it's the actual letting go. what i mean is, that moment when i finally accept that it's over, nothing worth fighting for, the moment i stop thinking "maybe we'll meet one day in the future and end up together anyways" the moment i truly accept that he'll no longer be in my life.. yeah, that moment is the one i fear. It's going to hurt, so badly. I know that-- but what happen after that? after the days of crying, when you run out of tears,, what happens? caus this is seriously my FIRST heartbreak EVER, i dont know how these things work.. it's a weird sort of heartbreak too, like he didn't cheat, we didn't fight or anything.. he's still the perfect guy i fell for, the guy i love, it's just that i moved, to another country.. and if im lucky i'll see him once a year, but that's it. so it had to end, we were forced to end it. i know it was the right decision, but i dont know how to deal with it.. please help! (link)
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Having your heart squelched is far more painful than having your heart broken. I know the feeling.
What comes after?
That's entirely up to you.
I understand this is going to be a hideously bad time in your life, with lots of fun things like crying, depression, and "what ifs" swimming around your head. But if one good thing comes of it... It's the freedom. Once it's all over, you take a step back, you look at your options, and you can choose. Maybe you want to find someone else, maybe you want to wait a while.
Your choice.
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thanks sooo much!! i started crying when i read your answer for some reason.. but yeah thanksfor answering this!
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