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Q: 17/f
ok. So I lost my viriginity today. We used a condom, and he's been tested so I know he's clean. When it happened it hurt a lot, but it's normal, right? I also didn't start bleeding until about an hour after it happened. It stopped, but my stomach still hurts.
So basically here's my question:
How long will it take until sex stops hurting?
I can def. see us doing it again in the future, maybe as soon as next week. Will it still hurt? I had fun anyway with the fooling around we did, but I'd like to enjoy it as much as he has, lol.
Thanks in advance!
-L
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Hello, L:
First of all, it's great that you thought about condoms.
It's not unusual to have sexual intercourse hurt and cause bleeding the first time.
When I first read your note, I thought that perhaps it hurts you because you weren't lubricated enough. Do you enjoy touching him? Do you enjoy his touching you? Do you enjoy giving/receiving oral sex? More often than not, those activities will create arousal and you'll be able to better enjoy intercourse.
Enjoy!
Cavatica
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thanks so much! your advice will be put to good use ;) thanks again
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bio
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Welcome to my advice column!
I am Cavatica, 35 years young, and live in New England.
My family and friends - God bless them! - consider me compassionate, caring, and empathetic. It took me many years to realize the importance of loving myself and being true to my beliefs and values.
As someone famous once said - *Act Worthy of Yourself.* Please do.
~ Cavatica
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Info
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Gender: Female Location: State of Chaos Occupation: Writer Age: 35 Member Since: December 1, 2006 Answers: 12 Last Update: April 23, 2009 Visitors: 3118
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