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i am a really nice person and i don't understand why so many people are mean to me...i mean i am really quiet and i don't bother nobody!
there is this person who is constantly putting me down and really hurting my feelings...i try not to let anybody know how bad he's hurting me....but it's really getting to me. you would think he would say it to my face instead of other people. i mean the stuff he is saying hurts me soo much....i'd rather be beaten physically than to have something killing me from the inside this much....
i really don't know what to do i just know i feel really bad about what's going on....espeacially when me and that particular person don't even know each other.....not to mention when he starts putting me down so does everyone else....
i know most people are going to say talk to him....but that's not an option...because if i talk to him i am probably going to get violent...because i am sick of this.
this is really really tearing me apart and i know you shouldn't let words bother you but after a while they began to really get to you and tear at you...what do i do? (link)
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they pick on you because you're making yourself an easy target. The quiet ones are always the easiest to put down because they dont FIGHT BACK.
I'm not saying physically fight back. But let people know that you're not gonna take this kind of harrassment.
and try to make more friends. If you have friends around you, you won't be so insecure and easily targetted. Bullies look for loners also.
You'll gain confidence by not hiding and the confidence will make it so if they still bully you, the words won't hurt as much.
I hope i helped. I went through this too and just follow my advice and you'll be as happy as i am now. =]
Good luck
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