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I'm 13/f
One of my guy/friends asked me out today, and my friend put me under a lot of presure of what tosay, so I said I'd think about it. He smiled and went on about his buisness. Then like, 10 seconds after the last bell rang one of my friends told him I'd said yes, but I hadn't.
Then at 4:59(sry 'bout that, I do that all the time) one of my other guy/friends who had him over called and asked me what I was gonna say because he wanted to know. As I said earlier, I hate being under so much as the tiniest bit of pressure, and I said "I guess." Know, I wish I could go back in time or kill myself. I don't like him, I like another guy, I don't totally trust him, and my mom said I couldn't have a boyfriend until I was 16. So now, I am disobaying my mother(whom I love very much and hate disobaying) gong against my scences, betraying myself( since I like someone else), killing myself from so much pressure, guilt, and worry, afraid I'll hurt him, might loos a friend, and wishing I could kill myself. HOW HORRIBLE!!!! HOw would I break up with him without hurting him or lossing his friendship??? (link)
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Tell him the truth. Tell him that your friend went ahead without your okay and told him yes. He should understand. He might be a little hurt at first, but things will be fine. Just explain the situation to him. Try to be sensitive about it and listen if he has anything to say. I wouldn't recommend telling him you like someone else. That would make him feel bad. Just let him know that you love being friends but you don't feel any chemistry between the two of you and you just want to keep it at a friendly level
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thank you now i have the boy i want and the other boy isn't bothering me. I thank you tons.
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