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Member Since: December 3, 2006
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Last Update: September 11, 2007
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sorry if it's a little long, but i'm freaking out

ok so the other day me and my bf were supposed to go on a date *it was our 3month*, but he didn't pick me up...instead he called me from where he was and was like "yeah i'm here" so i'm thinking "ok am i supposed to drive MYSELF to my own date? whats next...i pay too? i mean come on" so i was going to *though i wasn't too happy* and my family and friends were mad that he was to lazy to come get me. so my older, very strong brother *who my bf is intimidated by* called him up and basically told him he needs to treat me right and that since i'm his gf he should have the courtesy to pick me up and that if he treats me like garbage, there's gunna be a problem. and i was upset at both him and my brother and since then, my bf hasn't called or tried to get in contact with me. i've texted him but he's been short with me or just doesn't respond and i called him today and he was with his best friend so i said "ok well do you wanna call me back when you get home" and he was like "yeah i guess?" which just about made me cry *i've been all emotional this weekend*. is my bf really that mad at ME even though it was something HE did...or rather DIDN'T do?? does he just need time to cool off? i'm determined to not let something so stupid break us up, but idk if he'll realize how dumb this is and will just end things. i feel stupid for asking this, but i really care about him and don't want to lose him over something so small, and i really need some advice. (link)
I think that is really stupid that he did that. That is really selfish of him I think you need to try to corner him to tell him what you need to say. Make him talk to you. and if he won't listen then he should really be stupid not to. He has something special with you and doesn't see it. He shouldn't be mad at you he should have thought of what he had done and he should pick you up.


another way to get him is try to find out where he will be and try to corner him or something. Try to sneak up on him and tell him how you feel


Rating: 5
i tried calling him today and he said he'd call back...but hasn't. idk how else to get a hold of him =[




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