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I'm pretty sure that I have both of these two things stated in the title. I'm friendly with people I know, but totally ignore any other people I don't. Sometimes people think I'm very arrogant because I don't talk to anyone. I act so confident when I don't talk, because I'm trying to hide my extreme social shyness. This has really prevented me from doing things I want to do, and I avoid most social situations with a guy I like. I wish I could talk or even smile around my crush! You could say I'm painfully shy, I feel like I'm under attack and it's the most uncomfortable thing.
I've heard of a few self help books to help cure this, such as 'Painfully Shy' and 'Dying of Embarrassment'. If anyone has gone through this, what books do you recommend I read to help me?
P.S. I'm not looking for any advice right now such as 'be happier, think positive, and smile', because such things haven't working in the past.
Thanks so much!
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i think that you should talk to someone that you really talk to such as your parents or siblings.then take it to a whole new level by joining a group(study gorup,volunteer,etc)i really hope that my advice help you.contact me at bekoe1994@yahoo.com
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Thanks for the advice, but this is actually a disorder and I'm looking for a book to rid myself of it. :)
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