hey.... im not ur average person. most important lesson i'd like to teach every1 is that you should respect everyone no matter race color sexual orientation, beliefs or anything else. i love music and talking to other people. i give advice and get advice. hope i can be of service.
i can help u with anything...
i lve gining and getting advice. theres 2 ways to learn lessons in life
1)experience
2)ADVICE
suny
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Ok, last year I think I went through one of the most horrible things a 14 year old girl could go through, my bsf(best sister friend) got really jealous of me, and mad at me when I saw how bad me and her (and other friends) acted. So, she did stuff to make me gain weight, and then at one point, she just stopped hanging out with me, and got my other 2 bff's to leave me. So I speant 3 months by myself and being my own best friend. Now, today, I hate myself, I'm super shy(i used to be outgoing) and I never talk to much! And I want to make new friends but it seems like I'm to shy too! I need advice on how to love myself and tips on how to gain a friendship.(I'm sorry that I'm asking for advice on two things, I couldn't find a place that looked right for hating yourself and stuff..) (link)
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number one dont hate yourself... ive been in that position and trust me i know how hard it is to be alone... but seriously that girl sounds evil... i think you should just make new friends and be happy with yourself! some stupid girl is not going to destroy you!! like my display name
destroy to create... you have to be destroyed before you can be created into something new.. and better. just be yourself karma works in mystiiiiirious wayyys!!!
but the best advice i can give you is
1) dont try to get the girl back... make other friends
2) dont talk about her to others, dont stoop down to her level eveantually she will feel guiltty.
3) make new friends! find someone that yo can relate to and you dont have to lie to to make your self sound intresting...
you sound like a nice person and i hope that stupid girl gets what she deserves!!!
messege me back if you have anymore ?'s and to tell me how it goes...
i really really hope i helped
pluus if you feel really lonely i would be happy to talk to you
i have a myspace but i understand if your creeped out over the whole stranger over the internet thing...
love sunny
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I'll try my best not to hate myself...I'm trying not to but I end up saying something that makes myself feel worse! XD And karma does work because I lost all th weight she made me gain, and she gained a heck of alot of weight. And I'll try to make new friends. And you sound like a nice person too! And I'll add you to my myspace, and if you have MSN or Aim please add me! (I don't get on AIM very much...but if you add me I might get on more) My Msn is georgiapeach6@hotmail.com and my AIM is SofttBallBabe137. ^^ Thanks so much for the advice!
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