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hey im 14/m, i just like asked this girl i love out, weve been friends for a while and i think i do love her, either that or i like her beyond belief,i got the impression that she liked me to, which just built up false hope, well anyway i asked her out, and she rejected me, told me she only saw me as a friend
i was heartbroken, still am, my feelings for her havent changed, well heres my question, is there any way to make her see me as somthing else, like get her to see me in "that way"? please i love her.

To start, I'm sorry that this girl does not like you the same way you like her. I'm a girl, and I know the feeling. Although this probably isn't what you want to hear, there's not much you can do to get her to see you in "that way". If you change yourself, you would be changing the person that that girl became friends with, and that won't help the situation at all. The best thing for you to do is to chill out for a few days-- hang out with your guy friends, get your mind off things, take some time to think. In about 3-5 days, tell this girl that you can settle with being just friends for now and that you hope your friendship can be just as great as before. If you don't talk to her, things will be awkward between you two until someone has the courage to make small talk. You never know-- in a few years, positions may be switched. Don't say "yeah, right," because that really does happen. [From a girl's point of view, guys get much hotter as they age from young teens to older teens. Not to say that looks are everything, of course.] Take things one day at a time. Good luck with everything.

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(Rating: 5) thank you, you relli helped, thanx again
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