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i have a guy friend that likes me, but i don't like him. I really have no idea what to do about it either. He constantly hugs me, puts his arm around me, touches my waist, etc. and i really want him to stop! I always avoid it or shrug it off, and i've asked him to stop a few times, but he hasn't.
Also, his best friend is also one of my good friends. He and i hug a lot and we flirt, but we don't like each other.(everyone thinks he likes me, but i highly doubt it) He's such a good friend of mine, but i think it hurts his friend's feelings when he sees us hanging out.
I really want to avoid hurting anyone, but it looks like theres no other way. I found a balance, but with the guy who likes me constantly hitting on me...it sorta doesn't work.
I need suggestions!!! (link)
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I see how this is going, he feels left out and wishes for more am i right? It seems to me like a two man complex. I know you've tried it but tell him to quit it. Nothing's more powerful than the use of words in a confident tone. Sure you could slap him and tell him no like a child. Although it would have negitive affects, if he brings up the subject about you and your other friend just tell him that "he's a good friend just like you are, nothing more" Hope this helps, let me know how it goes. "sometimes some things need to be spoken"
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I'll try it. i just don't want things to be awkward between us. At least, any more awkward. haha.
but thanks. i'll talk to him. :-)
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