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hey everyone!
im belle.
i absolutely LOVE giving advice, it has to be one of my favorite things to do. feel free to ask me anything. i will try my best, and i wont judge anyone. i know that everyone has rough times and things that they go through in their lives, as i do also. everyone is important. and i will try my best to treat you that way through my advice. if i say something that you don't agree with, then im very sorry. but remember that you are asking for advice... there isn't a right or wrong answer. it goes by opinion. and i'll try my best to make you love mine. thanks!
**BeLLe**

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Okay I like this guy he dosn't know I like him but he's had a couple girlfriends and one just broke up with him not to long ago. He's real nice and I want to tell him but also I don't because of the last time everyone found out right now my bestfriend knows. Do you think I should tell him?

Ok, so I'm going to turn this around a little bit.
Say that you find out this guy likes you.. you aren't quite sure if you like him or not. So then what do you do? You start to notice him more. That brings out the positive things in him. So then you decide you like him more.

Ok now lets try this the other way.
You really like this guy, and you want to tell him you like him, but arent sure if you should or not. So you decide to let him know. (Don't go up and tell him... have it go through a friend, and make it subtle. You dont want to freak him out). He starts to notice you more, and starts to notice all the positive things in you. If he doesn't like you already, then he could start to like you more. And with a little bit of flirting on your part, you could very well have a boyfriend fairly soon.

**Just remember:
-Dont be too forward about anything. That can be a huge turn-off.
-Don't tell a ton of people. Just stick with that one friend knowing. Let her subtlely tell this guy that you like him.
-Keep him wondering. You don't want it to sound like you're obsessed with him. It will just make him like you more if he spends his time trying to figure out if you like him.
Hope everything goes well for you
**BeLLe**

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