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Q: I try to be myself in school.. but after getting advice and stuff, i still cant. if im not comfortable, then i kinda freeze or beocome kind of like.. twitchy a little. then like little things happen like me getting up to get a paper, and i dont want to do it, cause im feeling uncomfortable, then i end up embarassing myself.. well in my opinion. i mean, i believe that i like myself.. but i dunno what else i could do to get more comfortable. picture everyone in underwear? not so funny. uh.. treat the people as family? i guess so.. i've tried it but it kinda doesnt work. im more outgoing and stuff when im at home or not working.. sometimes i appear to be serious and really shy when i know im not like that. i've had this problem for like a couple years now.. i'm 13 in middle school. ehh.. any advice if there is any to solve this problem? thanks if you do :)
Also, when im outgoing like in school or something, then sometimes i get a little too carried away, cause maybe im trying too hard when i am, or something. how can i learn to control it without being too out of line or too.. in the line? like, with still having my dignity and stuff. :/ HEEELP!
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I used to be like that, like sometimes i didnt (sometimes still do if i dont feel like trying) have fun around certain people who i may not know very well and theres a lot of them. I know how you feel. This year i got like a bajillion times better and i think you can too.
You just need to remember that you are a pretty, nice, funny girl. (Unless you are a guy because you didnt say. If you are a guy i feel really bad now) Just be how you are around your closest friends and have fun. When you think something funny, say it. Don't be shy. Just remember that you have nothing to worry about.
About the sometimes getting out of control part.. just watch yourself and be careful about how crazy you get.
I hope I helped, if you have any more questions you can ask them.
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I absolutely love giving advice on advicenators. When people ask for my advice in real life, its probably not as good as my responces on advicenators because advicenators gets me thinking. I love helping people and I try to give the best advice I can.
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: PA Occupation: student Age: 14 AIM: Member Since: January 18, 2005 Answers: 413 Last Update: September 7, 2008 Visitors: 22887
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