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I'm not here to tell you what to think or do, but to give you as much honest, accurate information as possible. If I don't know an answer to a specific question, I'll research it before replying. I won't sugarcoat things; my job is to tell it like it is.

I've got a particular interest in sexual health and sexuality. I know a lot about fertility and pregnancy - and firsthand now, as I've just had twins. I'm also an accredited sexual health worker.

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ok i did it anal with my bf and iw ould like to know is that health?..is it ok to do that and once we did it and like shit came out and i though that was nasty he is like its ok this and that but for me i feel weird he said its ok and its normal because he went up my anus but me i think its nasty and unhealthy and hope you help thanks.. (link)
Anal sex is a choice a lot of people made. It requires lubrication and condoms - you are very likely to tear the delicate skin in your anus with anal sex, so the possibility of disease transmission is greater.

I would suggest you spend some time thinking about your dislike. If it's because you really, really feel it's wrong and genuinely don't want to do it - then don't do it.

If it's because you are afraid of new things, then perhaps it's worth trying again. Keep in mind that just because you've done it once doesn't mean you're under any obligation to do it again.

Everyone likes different things, and anal sex works for a lot of people. It's okay if it works for you - or if it doesn't.

I wish you the best.


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hey thanks ur so nice..i dont think i want to do it anymore thanks :)




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