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My boyfriend and I have been dating for 4 months, and i am 16 and he's 19. But it's alot different because we've known eachother for like all of our lives we have grown up in church together and he's a really good clean christian guy. And i am a really good clean christian girl and he's everything ive been looking for. And i know he's the one for me and i know without a doubt that i love him with all of my heart. But he used to smoke ciggarettes and he quit like 2 years before we started dating but he still does it like once every two weeks and i didnt know that...so he's basically been lying to me for like 4 months??? And i had to find out he was doing this from his brother...he had no intention in telling me! But i know or at least i feel 100% sure he hasnt lied to me about anything else but i just cant believe he would do that. And we got into a HUGE argument yesterday but we kinda made up, but things arent the way that they used to be you know? I just dont know what to do? I never thought he would keep something from me?? What do i do?

hey, well you should ask him if he has lied to you about anything else. jsut tell him that you dont want any lies whatsoever in your realtionship and that he can tell you anything. ask him why he was keeping this a secret from you. you just need to find it in your heart to forgive him if you really truly love him and want to stay wiht him.
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(Rating: 5) Thanks! I know i can forgive him and i know he hasnt lied to me about anything else...its just i never thought he wouldve lied period! But thanks! **HaLeY**
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