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HEYYY :D i'm in college and i'm a psychology major. i've had many experiences with boyfriends, crushes, friends and family. i know quite alot about sex and sex related issues, so feel free to ask me anything about that! i will be completely honest because i would want the same in return.

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Okay, well, I used to have a boyfriend (let's call him Nick), but we broke up about a week ago. Now, we are just really good friends. But, a couple days ago, Nick invited me over his house to watch a movie with some other friends. During the movie, he started getting close to me, and he hugged me when I was crying (for the movie). Then, while he was hugging me, he touched my ass, and started kissing me. Finally, he told me to go into his bedroom. Knowing me, I was so gulliable, and I went. We started making out on the bed. Finally, he took out a condom, and we started having sex. During it, we stopped for a couple mintutes when I hesitated. Some how, we fell asleep, and the next morning, I woke up, but it wasn't him! It was his friend, Steve! I went to the other room to tell Nick what happened, but Steve acted like nothing happened, and denied it. What should I do?

This guy 'Nick' is an asshole. Full blown jerkoff and isn't your friend, please do not speak to him for your own sake. He took advantage of you in your vulnerability. I'm sorry about this, and I know what you're going through since a guy used me the same way before BUT you learn, become wiser and move on. Were you intoxicated at all? If you were and don't remember, you might have been raped by this other guy 'Steve'. You need to tell someone you trust and go to gynocologist asap. If you were clean and had no alcohol or drugs in your system, I'm sure you remember or not if you had sex with this guy Steve. If you're sure you didn't, then let the situation go, realize your mistake and be the bigger person.

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(Rating: 5) Thanks! Oh, I didn't have any acohol or drugs. It was just dark that night, and Steve acted like Nick. Truly, it wasn't Nick's fault, it was Steve's. But thanks!
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