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I have a pretty confusing situation.
I'm a girl, 15 and a sophomore. There are two guys that are involved, the first, whom I'll call L, is a really nice, funny, and cute guy. I talk to him every day, and I think that we're friends and get along pretty well. He's 17 and a senior, and I've liked him since about the 2nd week of this school year. The second guy, F, I only met less than a month ago. He is the sweetest guy I know, and we talk pretty often nowadays, which is weird, as he has said that he usually can't stand sophomores. He's also a senior, and kindof an artsy, non-conventional guy. The problems? L is dating an AMAZINGLY gorgeous and talented girl, who lives 6 hours away but he has been dating since summer. He's never talked to me about her, but this weekend I saw them together for the first time and I almost had a stroke, which is weird for me. F drinks, smokes, etc, while I am 100% straightedge. L also has a really cool girlfriend, whom he has been going out with at least since the summer, and I know reasonably well.
I don't want to be a homewrecker. Are my hopes way too high? Will I ever be anything than just a friend with either of them? Do I just wait it out and see what happens? Should I even bother with F?
If you could bring any clarity to this situation, I would appreciate it so much!
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There is enough time in your furture for true love. The guys are both older then you are which is not that big a deal but...The problem is they are both in a different place in their life then you are. You sound mature for any age. Keep your heart close to you and just have fun at this point. That doesnt mean you cant fall for guys or just one. Just know they will not nessasarily last for "ever" grow from them the men you date now will be apart of what kind of woman you will become. Find a funny cute guy that is single.Some one who makes you laugh.... Hang out.
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