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I have a pretty confusing situation.
I'm a girl, 15 and a sophomore. There are two guys that are involved, the first, whom I'll call L, is a really nice, funny, and cute guy. I talk to him every day, and I think that we're friends and get along pretty well. He's 17 and a senior, and I've liked him since about the 2nd week of this school year. The second guy, F, I only met less than a month ago. He is the sweetest guy I know, and we talk pretty often nowadays, which is weird, as he has said that he usually can't stand sophomores. He's also a senior, and kindof an artsy, non-conventional guy. The problems? L is dating an AMAZINGLY gorgeous and talented girl, who lives 6 hours away but he has been dating since summer. He's never talked to me about her, but this weekend I saw them together for the first time and I almost had a stroke, which is weird for me. F drinks, smokes, etc, while I am 100% straightedge. L also has a really cool girlfriend, whom he has been going out with at least since the summer, and I know reasonably well.
I don't want to be a homewrecker. Are my hopes way too high? Will I ever be anything than just a friend with either of them? Do I just wait it out and see what happens? Should I even bother with F?
If you could bring any clarity to this situation, I would appreciate it so much!
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First of all i think that if you have other feelings for these guys you should let them know.
Maybe they feel the same way about you?
My personal opinion about bothering with F would be no not if your straight and he smokes and drinks because otherwise you might get hooked on smoking and drinking aswell.
You have to look at it from all angles i mean its not just you and them involved its L's girlfriend aswell.
F you only met less then a month ago you don't hardly know anything about him, i say you wait and see what he is really like then decide if you should make your move.
I also understand that you don't want L's girlfriend to get hurt but if you feel the way you do about him then he has a right to know, he might dump her and go out with you instead.
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Thanks for your help, but you know how it is: I don't want to say anything to either of them, especially L, as I talk to them both on a regular basis and I don't want things to be awkward. I know what my values are and I know that they aren't going to change very easily, but I wasn't sure if I should wait around till F realizes that drinking and smoking are dumb.
Thanks once again! :]
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