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My dad used to be really mean to my mom, and would treat me and her badly, and alot of stuff, I wont go into detail, but now he says he is sorry, and how he wants MY MOM bak, not really me. He just uses me to get to MY MOM. Like he willl only take me to the movies if my mom comes, and so on. But i like to be with him .But the thing is that the last 3 years i cut him out of my life, becuase he was so mean to us, and now he wants to a part of my life. I kno it is good to 4giv, but i 4 gave him so many times. I stood up 4him so many times, when no one else wud. Is this the last straw or no? Can you plz give me some advice?

You need to stand up for yourself this time. No more standing up for your father. You obviously love him and he'll always be your father, but the way he is treating you is horrible and not something you need in your life. I hope your mom makes the right decisions and does not take him back. You need to talk to your mom and discuss how you feel and what YOU would like. You are HER daughter and she should respect YOUR needs, over your father. It will be hard, but I'm sure you will be strong about all of this. No man should ever treat a woman badly and constantly leave then beg to come back. He is not acting like a father or a husband. Moving on from this will make you a stronger person, because he will just bring you down, and probably your mom too. You need to develop a strong relationship with your mother and maybe talk to a counselor in school or even a best friend. Remember - focus on you and only you and what will make you happiest in the end.

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(Rating: 3) Thanks for your advice, but you shouldnt just focus on yourself. I know that, because that is just being selfish. But i really do appreciate your advice. I will try to let him go, and get on with my life.
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