Hi, my names Melanie.
I'm fifteen years old.
I love fashion, hanging out with my friends,
and drawing and writing along with a bunch of other stuff.
I used to have an old account here that was quite known for awhile,
but I sort of just lost touch with it,
so I decided to make a new one.
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Age: 15
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Hey im 13/f. I was going out with this kid Anthony and i thought he was perfect. I met him through a friend of mine and he lives about 30 minutes away from me. I didnt get to see him that much, usually only every other weekend. I thought things were going great and everything but he just stopped calling me for no reason. I started to wonder if he lost his phone, or maybe he didnt like me anymore. Turns out i was right, because i couple nights ago he got his cousin to text me saying it was over since "we never got to hang out." ive been heartbroken ever since. I`m seeing him in a couple weeks, and i know that if i hang out with him he`ll start liking me and will ask me out but will the same thing just happen? I really like him and i would take him back in a second but i dont want him to keep dumping me since we live far away from eachother. I guess..i just dont know what to do. Anyone know anything to help with the situation? Should i talk to him about things? Thankss soo much. (link)
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Yes, that's a great idea. Talk to him about things. It's mostly likely that history'll just repeat itself and you two'll not hang out and you two will break up time and time again ; unless you guys work on it.
A relationship takes work and commitment so if you two make an effort to talk to eachother on the phone alot and hang out together, then your relationship'll be able to make it. I know 30 minutes is far, but I'm sure you guys can get a ride every now and then to drive to the other's house to hang out. Also, there may be places to hang out inbetween where the two of you live. Somewhere that's 15 minutes for the both so it's not far for either of you guys.
I would just go up to him at the party, and make conversation and flirt with him and show him what he's missing, and later during the night ( if he's returning flirts and attention and everything ) just ask him if you can talk to him privately. Whenever you guys are alone, just let him know how you're feeling. Just be like,"I know we've broken up and everything, but I still really like you, and I want to give it another shot. I know we didn't hang out hardly and never got to see eachother, but I promose if we were to date again, I'm going to make such an effort to hang out with you, if you make the effort also. If we work on seeing eachother, we'll be fine, and I really want another shot." And just see what he says and where it goes from there.
If he says yes like you say he will, then like I've been saying, work on it, see eachother, think of ideas on how you guys can talk to eachother more on the phone and hang out together more and places where you both can hang out togheter if driving to the others house is way to far for your parents. Just talk it out, and see where it goes.
I hope I helped.
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