Hello, I am a fifteen year old female. In the past I have dated two guys but broke up with them after a very short time because the relationships seemed boring, and I was (obviously) not ready for sex to "spice it up."
Now I feel like I do not want to date anyone again. I am unsure of the reason, it may be stress, nervousness or the fact there is no one whom I like. In the past I have been hurt a lot by guys, despite only dating two of them, and I do not trust anyone with my feelings. Nor do I think that anyone should be burdened with them.
I am wondering if I should try to look hard to find a the right guy, or if I should continue on as I am, basically avoiding relationships.
I want to have a good relationship and find someone who makes me happy and who I can make happy in return, but I also fear it. I know I feel lonely often, though.
How do I let myself trust / search for someone? Do I feel like this because I am young, haven't found the right person or what?
If you have any words of advice at all that relate to something I have discussed, I would really appreciate hearing it. Thanks so much.
Okay first things first I totally know how you feel. I'm 17 and I've been in more than two relationships. Yeah they can be horrible, sometimes really horrable. However you can have a good relationship that makes all the heartache worth it. Don't close yourself up but don't wear your heart on your sleeve. The right one will comearound just don't look for him at 15.
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Thankyou :)
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