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My name is Em. I love to dance, play lacrosse, volleyball, and soccer, hang out with my friends, watch movies, dance in the rain, sing, act like a dork, go swimming, shopping, and having fun :)
Gender: Female
Age: 14
AIM: BluMonkE835
Member Since: July 10, 2006
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I've got this amazing friend, John. I always joke around with him and everything with him and my best friend, Deanna, over the computer, but when it comes to actually hanging out.. it's a different story. While Deanna and I constantly are together, John only seems to want to talk to us when it's either conveniant for him, or when it's not in person.
For example, John, Deanna, our friend Alex and I all went to the movies to hang out. Well, Deanna, Alex and I all had a great time. We talked, laughed and everything, but John seemed to just completly be concentrated on the movie only, and when he wasn't, he was texting with some of his other friends. He pretty much didn't talk to us all until one of his newer friends met up with us at the therter..
He has made all these new friends, and I'm fine with him having friends, but he seems to be forgetting Deanna and I. He also seems to be more arrogant, because all of these girls happen to be alot prettier, and more popular than us.
He's just seemed to change.. and I really miss the old John, who I used to be able to joke around with, not having to worry about confrontation.
And I'm not flipping out all of a sudden, either.. This has been an on-going thing, and I've talked to him about it a few times. I don't pin blame or anything, but he's still not getting that he's not being the kindest person lately..
Please tell me what I should do.. I know not to push him away or anything, but.. what do I do to get everything like it used to be?
Thank you in advance, Sam (link)
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I know that you want your old friend back, but sometimes people just change...believe me, i know what you're going through...
However, if John is really your friend, he'll always come back to you...but for now, maybe you should just let him be.
Don't worry, you'll get through this...don't give up hope!!
Hope i've helped you!
*~*Em
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