Member Since: October 23, 2006
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Last Update: October 27, 2006
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so i like this guy who likes me back. he`s never admitted it but i have a strong feeling he does and my friend was with me last time i saw him and she is convinced he likes me too. i can`t get him out of my mind, but i know i shouldn`t like him. he`s in his 20`s and i`m 15. he is friends with my older brothers, who highly disapprove of me dating. also, i see him very unoften. the last time i saw him, other than this past saturday was the begining of june. but i can`t get him off of my mind and every time i see him, he makes it harder for me to forget it. should i forget him or should i wait and see what he will do? but he`s older than me, so should i just forget him? (link)
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From what you've said, the age gap seems more than 5 yrs. The age gap wouldn't be such an issue BUT FOR the fact that you're only 15 and still a minor.
It's so sad when lovely young girls like you are in such a rush to grow up! I know you may see this guy as attractive and exciting, but you need to try and think objectively, you're still not at a legal age to be having sex and it's highly likely that this guy will be expecting this. Also, if he's attracted to young school girls, it should make you question the kind of person he is. Is he the type of guy who would want an enduring proper relationship, or a quickie behind the school bike shed!
I'm 21 years old and the idea of me going out with a guy your age would make me feel like I'm sick! If you were 20 and he was even 28, then fair enoguh! There's still a gap,but you'd be more mature and ready for that kind of guy. I can't stress to you how important it is to be with someone who's on the same wave length as you.
Another thing to consider is that you're both of a different generation. How will you feel going out with him on a night out with his mates? Mates that will probably all be his age, whilst you're only 15. Again, won't it be painfully awkward for you to invite him to a school party or mate's birthday party when all the guests are teens!?
I say this not to be cruel, but because it's the reality. My mate date an older guy whenshe was in her teens and she told me how incredibly awkward her boyfriend felt when sheinvited him to our mate's birthday part and how they had to leave early because of it. It caused and embarrassing barrier and ruined her night.
Just please think about it logically and then decide.
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that reallly helps, sorry i`m late. but the thing is, i have never enjoyed the company of kids my age. but i really thought through how akward it would be which somewhat helps.
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