Member Since: October 23, 2006
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I am 15 and my boyfriend is 16 and soon to be 17. We do sexual things but sex has been one of the subjects we have been talking about. He said he would wait until I'm ready and I just don't know when that will be. At times I feel like I am ready but then I just can't because I'm scared. I think I'm too young but all my friends have started doing it. I'm just in an awkward position. My mom makes comments like she'll kill me if i ever did and that scares me. My mom lost her virginity supposedly at the age of 17... I don't know if my hormones can wait untill then. I just don't know what to do. (link)
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Well done for waiting! You should be proud as you are one of the precious few who respect themselves enough to wait!
I can't get over how many KIDS are having underage sex! It's ridiculous. Also, just because you hit 16, doesn't mean you have to lose your virginity then. Some may argue that's still too young. If you're boyfriend is genuinely decent, then he should be fine with waiting. But if you feel pressure from him then ditch him!
I'm still a virgin and proud of it as I refuse to lose it to someone that isn't THE ONE for me. I'm lucky to have friends who either lost their virginity in their late teens or are still virgins as they have mature minds and respect themselves and have never given me peer pressure.
In fact, I've had friends who say they envy me as they regret having sex so young. It's a big deal, and you need to be physically, mentally and emotionally ready for it. And you need to make sure you're 100% comfortable with the person you're going to have sex with because once it's done, that's it.
So pleeeease wait. My friend told me "Trust me, you'll know when you're ready...you just know 100%".
So the fact that you have doubts means you're not ready.
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