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Q: Hey, I'm 14 years old, a freshman in highschool. So there's this boy i really really like, we just met this year and are firends. I can't tell if he likes me back though. Sometimes he talks to me, sometimes i tlak to him, and now we've been walking to classes with one another ( he's in four of my classes, three of them are right after eachother)

I've caught him looking at me a few times, and he's caught me looking at him a few times. We joke around modestly, as he's pretty quiet. But he seems to like talking with me...he usually will make a comment to me if we're near eachother and spark up conversation. I try to stay back and walk with him, and sometimes he appears to walk with me by his own choice. And lately he's been looking at me more than usual and sparking up more conversation with me. But the thing is, if i try to talk to him online , he just doesnt seem interested. I'll get so far as to ask "whats up" and he wont reply. But he will reply to questions relating to school work etc. Does he like me? thanks for your help

well in my own opinion the guy likes you but " he is somewhat afraid to tell you becoz he is also trying to figure out if you will like him also its like a case of misunderstanding you are trying to know if he likes you and he is trying also to know if you like him also , the best thing to get anywhere with this guy, you're gonna have to be bold and make the first move, as scary as that might seem. But you have nothing to lose, so go for it! This guy might like you and wants to take things slow. he may not want to get into a fast relationship and is taking his time to know you more since you just met. you can try asking him why he doesnt IM you back and see what his response is.Heres the big whammy which takes alot of courage. you can ask him. its really not as bad as it seems. i did it once. sure i was scared but i did it and you never know untill you try.make sure you Don't try to rush anything! If he likes u let him chase you. I have noticed that most guys like the thrill of the chase. For now be his friend, and don't put any pressure on him. you might scare him away. It sounds as though he is slowly coming around. You might be best off just hanging back to see how it plays out. Considering you are both young, he may still be in the "I don't like girls very much" stage. When guys are young, they are still trying to find themselves. Girls mature faster than guys, so don't worry about just this one guy. Let him come to you. If you are on the Internet, you never know if he has any of his guy friends with him. Guys don't like their friends knowing they like someone. Things get said, and they don't like to be embarrassed. thas just a thought though about not telling his friends. Boys are strange creatures by nature,i think you are both shy,so just talk to him when he talks to you,and sometimes its ok to talk first,part of him still wants to be a boy and part of him is trying to learn to be a man,friends of either sex is always a great way to start as well. okay well i hope i helped you as best as i could and sorry i got to answer this so late. i got caught up in my homework. good luck and i hope i did my best. email me again if you have anymore questions. its scdgirl288@yahoo.com my name is also Brianna. bye and good luck again.

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thanks you were really thorough and honest. :)

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