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this is what my boyfriend just sent to me.. heres the convo between me and him..

i\'m sorry its sooo long but please read because im soo desperate!!

him: ive been thinking alot.......ive been unhappy you have been unhappy....im done being shit one in this relationship and done being taken for granted.....it just seems every time we see each other or talk were fighting and i dont want to be misrable any more you really have no idea what you have until its gone.if you keep doing what you are doing to me we are not going to last...if you do your not only gunna lose me but lose any chance of being friend after also.what im trying to say is....i think we need to take a break and see how muchi really mean to.i love you and this hurts but i cant keep hurting.


me: wow.. you f****ng liar. you dont love me.. annnd you broke every f****ing promise.. you get what u want.. and you'll see what u had.. key word. had


ok blah blah blah and then we decided we\'re still together and then he kept trying to hurt me by saying its all my fault and he wishes he could just forget me and my name and all that sh*t. but i kept saying like \"whatever happens happens and if we\'re meant to be together we\'ll be together and that he has his own opinion.\" so then he said well\" im so done with you\" and he doesnt know if he wants to ever get back with me

sooo my 2 questions are!!

1) what should i do? like what should i say and act around him.
2) how can i get over him and make it seem like im not hurt and how can i change.. i have an attitude, im clingy, and im jealous..

please help!!

Well by the sounds of it He has been a jerk to you trying to blame you for everything when It can't just be one person who ruins the relationship. If he was the greatest guy on the planet then you would be head over heels in love with him because he treats you right and you want to be treated. it seems like he hasn't and there fore the relationship hasn't worked. What you need to remember that you were living before the relationship and you can survive with out it. You are an incredible girl and you shouldn't change for anyone. There is someone in this world waiting for you. who is your perfect match, your soulmate. The person that you are supposed to spen the rest of your life with and by the sounds of it it isn't him. Now when you see him look like he doesn't matter, that you are doing fine without him. He will just want to play games with your mind and try to hurt you and the only way that he can do that to you is if you let him!!!! You don't need a man to make you complete and are better off without him because he is just making you confused and making you question yourself. you are amazing, you are incredible and you can be that amazing, incredible girl without HIM!You go girl. live life to the full and enjoy every moment!

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(Rating: 5) You made me realize a lot of things. Thank you so much!!
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