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Member Since: April 16, 2006
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Last Update: January 6, 2007
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14/f.

please readd. i need your help.

My friend, she has a cheerleading competition, on the same day as my halloween party. its like huge like 60 kids. & everything. I can't reschedule it, because its the only day they could do it.

Its our last year at the same school together, so its not like there will be another halloween party.

Anyways, I'm really mad.. that she'd rather go to some stupid cheerleading competition then be at my halloween party with me. is that being selfish? I mean there will be other cheerleading competitions. Right? Wouldnt you be mad, if that happened to you? (link)
You do have a right to be mad because she is your best friend and she should be at your party. But this is a cheerleading competion and you have to understand that if she misses, she's letting her team down, therefore screwing up all their lines and stunting groups.

However, you could ask her about it and see if theres a possibilty of her missing out on this competition and have someone fill in for her.

I would be mad but I was a cheerleader before and it's really hectic when you have someone missing and cant put your stunts up. It is your friends responsibilty to show up at that competition..

Good luck, hope I helped.. =]


Rating: 5
yeah, thanks. i took cheerleading before too.. & the one competition i missed, because i was sick. & she said she just found out yesterday, a week advance.. you find out like months before, where i used to go & she goes now. i think she just wants to shop.




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