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I will admit it. I am a terrible dancer. I have fun dancing, but I look like a dork. I'm going to a Halloween dance thing with my boyfriend, and I'm at a loss as to how I'm going to dance with him, because although I have the slow dance thing worked out, I tend to look a little crazy when I boogie down to fast music.
Anybody have any tips to keep me from looking like a total loser on the dance floor? I shy away from the skanky grinding, but it may be a necessity.
I learned a little about not looking dopey dancing when I lived in Mexico and went to a local dance every Wednesday. I was told that the basic two-step is all you need to know. Just two steps forward, two back, whatever, in rhythm. Move your hips as well, and your body will follow.
I am guessing you don't know what to do with your arms. That seems to be the problem I've run into most myself, and seen more others deal with. Just keep them on your bf or close to your body, but not like hugging yourself. Let the music guide you and don't worry how you look. You won't be the only one who feels silly, and you won't look as crazy as you will feel at first. After only a short while, you will feel more comfortable.
Most importantly, have fun with it. So what if you look crazy?
Oh, also, is this a costume thing? If so, no one even needs to know it is you :P
(Rating: 5) Thank you! And yes, it is a costume thing... but people will know who I am.