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I'm an engineering student (electrical). I'm just slightly a "nerd" and a "geek"--but in a good sort of way. Like, I fix a lot of things for friends, and I have a lot friends. ; ) But I enjoy other stuff too.

I am tall and otherwise average build. People tell me I have a great sense of humor and they like my wit (puns are "cheap humor"). A few girls have told me I am good-looking, but I don't think I am. I think I'm average looking. Some girls in bars have called me "handsome." But that's their job to make customers feel good.

Anyway, I am 21. I like all kinds of elecrical gadetry and computers. I would like to work for NASA someday. Space and the unknown fascinate me.

This is really weird, but I would prefer to listen to classical music than just about any other kind of music. I have a part-time job where I sometimes work on sound systems and I have to listen to rock in order to test the systems, but that's the only time I listen, except for some of the classic rock stuff that my dad has mentioned.

The thing I like most is helping people solve problems--gadget problems as well as personal problems. I have a quite a few friends (both male and female) who just like to hang out and work through their relationship problems, school problems, and career choice issues. I have thought about being a psychologist or counselor, but it doesn't seem to pay enough. : (

I ramble a lot too. ;)
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Location: Cincinnati
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Age: 21
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me and my boyfriend waited 9 months before we had sex .. now WHENEVER we hang out we do it like 5 times .. i dont want it to get old .. and i think we do it too much .. he feels differently but im not sure how to talk to him .. please help =[ (link)
All depends. How often do you hang out? Everyday? Once a week?

Do BOTH of you want sex that often? If only one of you wants it that often, then there could be a problem that you really should talk about.

Maybe you don't have enough other interesting things going on. Can you find other things you really want to do in addition to sex? Try some new things, like hobbies, working out, going out with your buds, finding some people who need your help and then helping them, getting involved in extracurricular activities at school, volunteering for something at school or in your community. Set some worthwhile goals for yourself and have your boyfriend do the same, and then achieve them.

As you get older and in college and stuff, you might find that there is just not enough time to get all the really important stuff done and also have sex several times a day. Just a thought, but it might seem pretty lame right now.


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i see him once a week but mostly its all the weekend. ill try =]




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