Hey i'm Melissa i'm 14 me and my friends and my so-called friends have been through everything together soo if you have a problem we've probably had it to, so dont worry im here with advice and i'm pretty sure i can help you with any problems you have.. wanna i-m me and ask me on aim go ahead:: Brunete x Hottie or NevaHadSum1LikeU x-0 Melis*
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Hey melissa my name is elisa and I'm 17 years old. I saw one of the questions someone left you about her friend who used to cut herself. I can really relate to that topic. I used to be a cutter. I haven't cut my self in almost a year but I still have the scars to remind myself of the pain I was in. I look back and ask myself, why did i hurt myself instead of talking about my problems. I don't know. I guess I didn't think anyone would understand. If I knew there was a website like this, I know I could of prevented some things. Well I'm very proud of myself for not cutting in almost a year. Its very hard not to but if you put your mind to it then its something you can accomplish. Well recently I've had an urge to self harm but I haven't. I still think about it sometimes and I don't know who to go to talk about it. If I go to my mom she'll want me to talk to my therapist, if I go to my therapist she'll ask too many questions so I just want someones opinion. Can u give me your advice about how I can deal with my urges? (link)
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Listen Elisa . urgues for self pain arent good . i know you dont want to see a therapist because they're going to ask you too many questions but if you in so much pain that the only thing you can think of doing is cutting or hurting yourself in any other way maybe you do need help from a therapist. one of my friends used to cut and, one day she became friends with these two other girls who kind of steered her away from stuff like that . maybe you just need to find a friend who u can confide ur secret to and who you can askk to help you with it and to make sure that you dont do it again. people cant really be held accountable for all of their actions everybody needs a little help here and there..
hope i helped . write back to mee and tell me if that advice helped.
xoxo melisa
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Thanx for the advice. But I also think that I made it sound worse then it really is. I don't get a big urge to go hurt myself I jus wonder about wat if I did. I think about the consequences and the urges go away. I've been in therapy for almost 3 years and its really helped but I think little slips now and then are ok if u can pull yourself through them. And I did have a really good friend but we are parting ways slowly and that hurts. The one person I told EVERYTHING to is now moved on with another bestfriend. But I have a new friend too. Its all good. I hope you understand where I'm comming from. Thanx girl write bak
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