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17/f - My boyfriend (15 yrs old.) broke up with me a few days ago because he said he didn't want to be in a relationship right now because a few months ago he got out of a 2 yr relationship with a girl he loved that cheated on him with his cousin and bestfriend. We didn't go out that long but I ended having strong feelings for him. He wanted to be friends but it bothered me too much. I think he only wanted sex and I'm still a virgin and I don't want to have sex yet. Anyways, I was on the phone with him yesterday and he was kidding around alot about having sex with me and being friends with benefits (which I seriously DON'T want). I got really pissed off and hung up. So he called back and told me he wouldn't kid around with me anymore and then he told me he wanted to be honest with me and tell me something and said he had sex with this girl on my bus twice! Once, the week before me and him started to go out and wednesday (2 days after he broke up with me)! I was crying and my friend that was over asked if she could talk to him and she did. When she got off the phone we talked about him and everything. She went through almost the same stuff I had to go through and told me I should stop talking to him and maybe be friends with him later when I was ready. I know it's a good choice and I called him and told him I didn't want to be friends right now and he said ok and we hung up. I'm just so heartbroken and a part of me wants him and a part wants me to forget him and move on. I'm also thinking he might have cheated on me while we were going out but I don't want to find out even he did. My questions are: Do you think it's a good thing I stopped talking to him for now? Should I move on? Or be friends with him? How can I make things easier for me not to get jealous seeing him with other girls and help me move on? Also, the girl he had sex with has A BOYFRIEND!! Don't you think it's wrong since he had to deal with his exgirlfriend cheating on him so why would he let that happen to another guy?! Ughh seriously I just need some advice and opinions on what to do. Thanks and sorry it's so long. (link)
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its ok its so long i read it all :0). ok what i think is that you not talking to him was the best thing. i think he just used you like you wrote just to have sex. next time u see him with a girl think that hes a looser and that shes the one that has to put up with him now. your very lucky that you choose the right thing to do. many girls might have done sex with him like the girl on the bus did. also r u possitive that he had sex with that girl on the bus? maybe he just wants you to get jelous?. hes defentely (spelling?) not the right guy for you. you deserve someone better.someone who isnt only with you just for sex. he left you just because you wouldnt do "it" with him. thats not right you should be with someone that loves you and just wants to be with you. you are a person thats worth alot dont be waisting your time with someone that doesnt worth crap.you will eventually find a great guy that loves you and then youll be happy that you left that jerk and that your still a vergin. remember you can only be a virgin once! goodluck and i hope i helped and sorry its so long. :o)
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thanks. =) hopefully i can find out more stuff about him and the girl. but i'm deff not talking to him for a VERY long time.
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